| i didnt have intercourse until 20. dated a girl through HS and college, and she wanted to wait tho we were sexually active in other ways.... tho "sexually active virgin" is an odd tag. lets not make this a debate about that... weve fought that battle in other threads.
my mother became pregnant at 16. she was the straight A student who walked the straight and narrow until she had sex, and then me. had to go back to get her GED. so... by the time my hormones were raging like mad... sure i was interested, and i probably would have had sex earlier had i been with a girl who didnt hold back... but in some ways it was actually easier, less stress. by the time i had sex, i was more prepared for it and it didnt hurt one bit to wait a while.
as for being good in bed and worrying about living up to the rep... everybody starts somewhere and learns sometime. most guys are clueless at first, and most girls dont know what they need to best experience sex... but the discovery is part of the fun. the simplest advice id give is dont rush, dont be all over the place, allow sensual tension to build, and talk to your lover about what she likes and wants.
if ive learned anything useful over time, its because i talked to wonderful, strong women who were not afraid or ashamed of talking about sex openly.
*tried to PM you about something but your profile wont allow it. bounce one to me if you are still following this thread.* | 
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