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Old Jan 26, 2007, 08:58 AM
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I want to find my biological mom

I was adopted when I was six days old. My adoptive parents are William and Suzanne Ellenberger. I have never met my biological mom, but have letters and cards that she sent me. I know her by two names, Susan Henderson and Susan Taylor. I was born in Salt Lake City, Utah on Palm Sunday, April 9, 1990. I would really love to contact her. I am presently in the custody of Georgia Child Services because my adoptive parents abused me. If you know my mother, or are my mother, please contact me.
If anyone knows of any better, but free, way to find her, please let me know.
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Kayla Michelle

P.S. I also know that she wanted to meet me when my adoptive parents deemed me old enough. I no longer stay with them, so their opinion doesn't carry much weight.

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Old Jan 30, 2007, 09:45 AM   #11  
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Where to start searching:
Personal Records Checklist - Adoption - Families.com
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Old Jan 31, 2007, 08:14 AM   #14  
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Thank you! Anything helps!!!!
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I found some big news out yesterday. I am supposed to be moving to another group home down in Ludowici, GA. I am leaving the best family I've ever had. I have brothers, sisters, moms, dads, aunts, uncles, and craploads of friends I have to just up and leave. Part of me is very glad, but wow, it is so sudden. I know it's what's best for me; it's just so hard to believe.
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Believe me when she says GA Protective Services won't help you, they almost had me arrested before for trying to help someone ( interfereing with custody they called it) and another one of thier case workers tried to have me arrested for defending myself against a 15 year old gang member who was trying to beat my windows out with a baseball bat. ( I had the nerve to actually take the bat away form him, and hit him)

They closed the case on the real mother years ago and when that bridge was done, they don't go back, to the state the adoptive parents are the legal parents and if the child is to go back to any home, it would be the home of the adoptive parent.

I would say your case deserves to be looked into, and I wish I could do more personally but since you are underage legally our hands are tied to do a search for you.
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I am happy that you may finally find love and happiness and a real family. Please be aware that you can still search for your biological family, yourself. Online. Whatever the circumstances for your relinquishment is YOUR business and NO ONE elses. They are YOUR biological parents. It is YOUR story. And PLEASE DO NOT listen to negative people. You are getting older now, and are able to MAKE your own decisions pertaining to wanting to search or not. Although, no "Search Angel" can assist you legally until you reach 18 years of age in most states. But you can still search and possibly find YOUR answers in the meantime. And do not listen to anyone telling you anything differently. It is your business. NO ONE ELSES. Your birth mother may be worried about you? You may have a sister that is worried about you? Or brother? Or father? And then maybe not. But it is your and your biological families business. As well as the outcome. And it is up to ALL of you to reunite or not reunite. You have been through a great deal in life, already. It is my hope that the challenges that you have faced are over now. And that you can finally rest in a real parents arms, full of unconditional love and commitment. As well as get the support and acceptance emotionally that you need if you chose to continue to search for your biological family.
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The challenges in life are never over. Without challenges, there would be no mistakes, without mistakes we would not learn. I live for challenges, and searching for the answers. Thank you for your concern, and I know that only I can dictate my life, not others, not my past, just me.
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You will find many negative people along your path. Whether it be for or pertaining to searching for your biological family or not. As well as many road blocks along the way, just for wanting what is yours to begin with. But, never ever give up. A person who has never lived your life, cannot understand your path. Listen to your own drummer and you will find your own music. You are wiser than your years.
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