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Old Apr 26, 2008, 10:32 AM
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Sister seperated from her little brothers

When I was four was the last time I saw my beautiful little brothers William and Zachary. I am now 16 Will is 12 and Zachary is 11. I remember the last day I saw them very clearly and I miss them so much. I found their adoptive parents phone number in my grandmothers address book and I have programed it into my phone. I want to call it all the time, but I am so scared and dont know what I would say "Hello Mr./Mrs. Bells, I'm Lynn; you know Will and Zach's older sister. I was calling to see if I can come up and see them" I dont think so! I dont even know if Jim and Daian told them about me. They were only babies when I last saw them so they dont remember me. So please, have a good heart and help me with this

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Old Apr 26, 2008, 10:19 PM   #2  
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"Hello Mr./Mrs. Bells, I'm Lynn; you know Will and Zach's older sister. I was calling to see if I can come up and see them"

Sounds pretty good actually. It's not an inappropriate request. Why not give it a shot?

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Old Apr 27, 2008, 06:01 AM   #3  
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Yes, it sounds very good, I have one 1/2 brother and 4 1/2 sisters, sounds about like the call I made to talk to my 1/2 brother.

The step mom for my 1/2 sisters refused to even talk t me and I never got to talk to them,

So you don't know what the call will do but all you can do is call, go ahead and do it.
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Ok I might tomorrow. I am not sure though
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Yes that sounds actually very very good...I have Full Custody of a Little boy and If his Older sisters would like to see them That would be perfectly fine with me...He has not seen them in a year and from the sounds of it he wont be seeing them or his Biological mother for a while...But if the Sisters wanted to see him that would be alright so give it a shot whats the worst they can say really? If they say No they honestly have no heart
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I am just really worried they will tell my parents. I am not sapost to call or see then till they are 14 I think

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Greg Quinn agrees: You were never not supposed to see them. I'm shocked, and I'm betting this is common??
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I am just really worried they will tell my parents. I am not sapost to call or see then till they are 14 I think
too bad your parents could be there when you visited them or whatever..
you should talk to your parents
cuz its not healthy to lie and if you lie to them..they might not trust you
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I would make sure that it is the right number. If not, you may have to find other avenues of bridging the gap.
These are your brothers, nobody had a right to separate you guys in the first place. Communication should have always existed. I think it is important for you to do it as soon as possible, you have missed them long enough. Good luck to you!
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