| Get a lawyer.
The birth father has rights, even if he is not on the birth certificate. You will have to contact him and ask him if he will sign off his rights.
As far as the actual adoption--after the birth father has signed away his rights, you petition in court for your husband to adopt. While it is possible to have a fiance adopt in some states, most want a permanent situation, such as marriage, in place before granting an adoption.
A family lawyer in your area will know the best ways for you to accomplish all of this. |