| laticious,
Please join an Adoption Search and Support Group. You can find them at yahoogroups or googlegroups.com.
Join one that is in the state that he was born into. If you know what state he was born in, that is!
If you don't, join a support group that he was adopted into.
Hope this helps.
There is also a good one called Soaring Angels. They can be found on yahoogroups.com
There is nothing wrong with you helping out your guy! Plenty of us gals, do it all of the time. Nothin ventured, nothin earned. But you will need his help, consent and information in order to procede to a positive outcome.
MOST adoptee's do wonder. And most search at different points in their lifetimes. Some more intense, than others.
Personal note:
It is an individual choice. It is an individual journey. As an adult, I need no ones permission. It is my past. It is my future. It is my life. It is my family. It is my Vital Record. It is my heritage. It is my biology. It is mine, I own all of it. Even the outcome. | 
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