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Old Feb 11, 2008, 12:23 PM
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How do i search for my mother

I am 18 years old and I am now looking for my biological mother. How do i go about that if i know nothing of my parents at all?

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Old Feb 11, 2008, 12:52 PM   #11  
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Yes, when you were brought to the US, a birth cert would have been placed on record as proof of your idenity. Were you made a US citizen?
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Puerto Rico Birth Certificate, Death Record, Marriage license and other vital records

This is the website for PR Vital Records.
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Yes I am a US citizen. Well that is what i was told. They let me in a federal ground school. I am in Job Corps in Kentucky. No matter by the time I get out of this system I plan to get married to my boyfriend. And he is a US citizen
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I am goin to check this website out and i will be right back to talk Thanks alot!
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Okay this was a dead end. So should i look up the number to Children Home Society?
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Have you tried asking your adoptive parents?
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Okay with my adoptive parents i really never got along with them. They had me for the money that was being offered to them. They had the opportunity but they told me that if i wanted to know then i would have to do my own research. My parents have cut me off completely. I am on my own all i have is my boyfriend. I am at this center where they try to help teens like me. I have no place to go. They wont help me and they have crossed out all the information on the paper that had my information
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You can try sites like Adoption.com that have lists of adopted children and birthparents with hopes of making a match.

You enter all of YOUR information,and any info you have about your bio-mother, and at some point if there is a match, you can be contacted.

The one concern I have here, though: WHY are you searching for your biomom? If you were in foster care, it's usually for a reason like neglect or abandonment. Are you ready to deal with rejection if your biomom doesn't want anything to do with you?

Similarly, are you going to be okay if you do NOT find her?

You can check with the foster care system, check with adoption agencies, and check court records in the city where you were adopted, as other avenues to search.
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Give me a few to look into some other options, BRB.
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Naturalization Records

Try this website, it may provide you with links to assist your search.
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