I am adopted and I was just wondering if anyone new a faster and more discreet method of finding birth parents other than having to go to court and have the papers opened. I have tried going to various websites to try to find them but I have a huge problem. I donít know my birth parents names and to make matters worse my adoptive parents loath the idea of me searching for my biological parents. My adoptive mom freaks out when I even mention it even though I have told her over and over again that I wonít love her any less if I find my birth mom. The only thing I know about my birth mom is that she was 14 when she had me. So honestly Iím stumped right now but I would greatly appreciate any suggestions.