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I don't know what to do anymore - meeting my biological parents?

Asked Mar 24, 2011, 04:09 PM — 12 Answers
Hello,

I'm an adoptee. I want to meet my biological parents but I'm afraid that they don't want to see me. I feel a little bit unwanted because they gave me away. I also don't dare to talk to my adoptive parents about meeting my biological parents. I'm afraid that they'll think that I'm ungrateful. I really don't know what to do and I'm thinking of this at almost every moment on every day. I hope someone has advice for me!

Thanks, Vincent.

P.S. I'm sorry for my bad English.

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Dec 26, 2011, 03:24 PM
stay strong i want to do the same I'm doped to and i want to know who i look like more. Where you in foster care before you where put up for adoption? my foster parents said that every biological parents had the number of their child so if they want ed tot hey could contact you but they might be scared to call because they think you are having a great time and don't whant to disturb the family.That didnt stop me form wondering who i really am I can't talk to my adoptive parents about my adoption at all they just ignore me so i decided iw will wait till I'm 18 when i get my adoption papers
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Dec 27, 2011, 11:05 PM


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stay strong i want to do the same I'm doped to and i want to know who i look like more. Where you in foster care before you where put up for adoption? my foster parents said that every biological parents had the number of their child so if they want ed tot hey could contact you but they might be scared to call because they think you are having a great time and don't whant to disturb the family.That didnt stop me form wondering who i really am I can't talk to my adoptive parents about my adoption at all they just ignore me so i decided iw will wait till I'm 18 when i get my adoption papers
This is VERY wrong. Biological parents do NOT have contact information for their child in the majority of cases.
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Dec 28, 2011, 02:22 PM
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stay strong i want to do the same I'm doped to and i want to know who i look like more. Where you in foster care before you where put up for adoption? my foster parents said that every biological parents had the number of their child so if they want ed tot hey could contact you but they might be scared to call because they think you are having a great time and don't whant to disturb the family.That didnt stop me form wondering who i really am I can't talk to my adoptive parents about my adoption at all they just ignore me so i decided iw will wait till I'm 18 when i get my adoption papers

This is absolutely not correct in the vast majority of cases. You don't automatically get your adoption papers. In fact, the vast majority of adoptions are sealed.

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