Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask

Weed issues

Asked Feb 14, 2007, 08:01 AM — 56 Answers
My boyfriend smokes weed, I don't know what to do? Should I get shut of him? Is there anyway it can damage my health through kissing, sex, etc. It worries me the more I think about it?!

56 Answers
isabelle's Avatar
isabelle Posts: 310, Reputation: 194
Full Member
 
#51

May 10, 2007, 10:57 AM
Thanks excon
Helpful
XxRoosterXx's Avatar
XxRoosterXx Posts: 45, Reputation: 44
Junior Member
 
#52

May 10, 2007, 12:43 PM
I want to answer your question but first off, pot can cause health issues. Just like smoking cigerettes or drinking alcohol. To the extent can be argued for years. There acutually was a recent study proving that the THC can actually help with lung cancer. Not to say you should start smoking to prevent this. But... My point that I'm trying to make is weed is not any worse than drinking alcohol. Just like alcohol, it can be consumed by mature responsible people. Millions of people smoke socially and lead productive and successful lives. Others, just as with alcohol can not handle it and their lives are destoyed. Now, if your boyfriend refuses to give up weed and you do not approve than really what choice do you have? You first have to respect and love yourself. Think hard about this. What will make you happy and allow you to live the kind of life that you feel you deserve to live. If weed is not part of that than do not waste anymore of your time. I truly hope that this helps. Good Luck
Helpful  (3)
MissAdvice's Avatar
MissAdvice Posts: 63, Reputation: 60
-
 
#53

May 10, 2007, 11:26 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by curioususer
my boyfriend smokes weed, I don't know what to do? Should I get shut of him? Is there anyway it can damage my health through kissing, sex, etc. It worries me the more I think about it?!
There are diseases that you can catch from a person who shares weed as in blunts..therefore if he smokes with someone he can catch a disease from them and transfer it to you
Helpful
excon's Avatar
excon Posts: 21,002, Reputation: 15475
Expert
 
#54

May 11, 2007, 06:01 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by MissAdvice
THEREFORE IF HE SMOKES WITH SOMEONE HE CAN CATCH A DISEASE FROM THEM AND TRANSFER IT TO YOU
Hello again, Miss:

This was ridiculous when you first said it, and it's even more ridiculous now.

You can catch a disease if you drink a soda after someone too. I guess we should outlaw soda.

excon
Helpful  (1)
rockerchick_682's Avatar
rockerchick_682 Posts: 496, Reputation: 415
Full Member
 
#55

May 27, 2007, 09:29 PM
I don't know all the facts, but weed isn't really that bad for you, it's like alcohol except it hurts your lungs. I doubt you'll get anything from kissing, but I'd dump this loser while you can, stoners are not people you want to date, believe me I know. The way I see it, stoners are people who can't deal with reality so they screw themselves up
Helpful
38yearsold's Avatar
38yearsold Posts: 14, Reputation: 20
New Member
 
#56

May 28, 2007, 09:27 PM
This is really the deal, even boozers tend to avoid TOTAL reality, yet stoners seem to feel that getting high on pot and whatever else, at any time of day, is ok 'cause they're not stumbling and stinkin' of alcohal,sensing that they won't get noticed [caught], that it's something that can be gotten away with. Aware and serious people who understand and care of others safety can recognize this half arsed behavior and hate to let this kind of behavior slide.We all like to have our own vices, yet we are not an island, everything we do affects everyone else. Lets look ahead and think of others as well of our own limited joy!
Helpful  (1)
hennigar72's Avatar
hennigar72 Posts: 12, Reputation: 20
New Member
 
#57

May 28, 2007, 10:39 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by brazygirl08
WOW lol by much more important. I mean much more important to worry about. Hard drugs like these are what rips families apart and kills people. I mean have any of you ever had a family member or someone you know do crack or coke? Or have you seen someone on it? If not then you need to before you judge how bad things are.
Addiction is addiction. Some people are addicted to shopping or sex or gambling, and their addiction rips their lives apart. I do agree that crack and meth have highly addictive qualities and those addictions seem so much harsher, but trust me, if somebody is addicted to pot they are living in a hell as well. But to touch on the initial question being asked-- I don't think you need to worry about your health being at risk (aside from the second hand smoke). I think you need to figure out where you stand morally on the subject of pot smoking. If it's something you don't want in your life, then you probably have a difficult decision to make. I also like to add this-- people sometimes put limits on what they will do and won't do. If you at first say you will never smoke pot and you cross that line and start smoking pot. What's the next line you will cross? Coke? Meth? IV dug use? I've learned that drug use is just a symptom of addiction and experimenting can be so very dangerous because you may be an addict that hasn't even used drugs yet. Hope you figure out what's important to you and know that you deserve to have what is important to you. Good luck.
Helpful

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.

Remove Text Formatting

Undo
Redo
 
Decrease Size
Increase Size
Bold
Italic
Underline
Align Left
Align Center
Align Right
Ordered List
Unordered List
Decrease Indent
Increase Indent
Insert Email Link
Wrap [QUOTE] tags around selected text
Wrap [CODE] tags around selected text
Wrap [HTML] tags around selected text
Wrap [PHP] tags around selected text
Wrap [YOUTUBE] tags around selected text
Notification Type:



Check out some similar questions!

Weed wacker [ 2 Answers ]

What is the mix ratio of fuel and oil for a weed wacker

Weed Eater [ 5 Answers ]

I have a WeedEater Featherlite Plus trimmer. I have had it for about three years. It has worked wonderfully well, until the last time I used it, and even then it ran. My problem is that the last time I cranked it, the rope did not retrieve, or get pulled back in to where it is supposed to be. ...

Errection issues or Attraction issues [ 3 Answers ]

Folks! - I have a problem. I'm 26, my girlfriend is 20 - We both hold eastern values (for the most part) and I've been with her for about 1 year now - we've been having regular sex everyday pretty much for about 8/9 months now - and by regular sex I mean sex every day, sometimes couple of times...

Weed problems [ 5 Answers ]

I live in a manufactured house in a park and we have areas of stone beds that we try to keep weeded,is there any inexpensive liquid or granuals to help eliminate them? I have a layer of some kind of plastic under the stones.


View more Addictions questions Search