Hello Krs,
Stilnox usually is also know as
Ambien or Myslee and is a sedative sleeping tablet for short term use only. It is very addictive.
It is commendable that you want to help her, but as other posters have already pointed out it is very difficult to help a drug addict. She herself has to want to be treated for drug addiction.
The problem is that most drug rehabilitation programs are not very helpful and generally have a low success rate.
I believe this is because people have a poor understanding as to the biological nature of addiction.
The first step in treatment is the gradual withdrawal from the addictive drugs under the supervision of the doctor. There are some nutritional tricks that will help people withdraw from drugs. See:
Treatment of Drug Addiction.
Drug addicts have been found to be
hypoglycemic, meaning that they have a problem of metabolizing sugars in food into biological energy called
biological energy (ATP). This energy is required for the body to produce the feel good
neurotransmitters such as
serotonin.
Therefore it is essential that an addict adopts the
Hypoglycemic Diet, whilst withdrawing from drugs.
The hypoglycemic syndrome can be tested with the four hour
Medical Test for Hypoglycemia. It can also be tested with a paper-and-pencil test called the
Nutrition Behavior Inventory Test (NBI) .
If you score high you are likely to be hypoglycemic.
Once withdrawn the person needs to be treated for the biological disorder that brought him/her to take drugs in the first place. Most addicts are found to have a pre-existing hypoglycemic condition, that is partially of a genetic nature ( it may run in the family) and partially acquired due to for instance a high life-long sugar consumption. There are many other medical conditions that can contribute to depression and wild mood swings that the person tried to treat with drugs.
For an explanation of the biochemistry of addiction see:
Alcoholism is a Treatable Disease.
The same prinicples apply to most forms of addiction.
Of course once the biological aspects are being addressed it helps to do a course in
psychotherapy, specifically dealing with a negative self-image and the development of social skills.
This therapeutic program for drug addiction has been more fully explained in my book "Getting off the Hook" (see below).