when my boyfriend moved in with me i found alot of new things about him! of course there was the usuall , however if foudn several porn dvd and pictures even downloaded on to his ipod, i talked to him about it and he said that he cant help it. he is a truck driver and gone during the week and its very easy for him to stop and buy any kind of porn. at first when we talked about it he made it seem like it was just a normal male thing, wich i am fine with a playboy and a few porns but when he is buying them all the time and cant help it it worries me. also when he is home i cant trust him on his computer because even with me in the room he is looking at porn! is there something that i could do or do you think i am just being too sensitive i guess would be the word. i dont mind the normal guy porn, but the cant help going to a porn site evertime hes on the computer no matter what , or every week stoping and charging a porn on his credit card is really getting to me

talaniman

This is something he must deal with, and if it bothers you to much, he has to go. Tell him your feelings, and if he chooses to keep doing what he is doing, time to go. Its not about porn, but obsessive behavior.

Fr_Chuck

yes, it is something that he has to deal with. And no porn is not really normal, most men don't look at it. and those that do do not look at it all the time,

It bothers you, you set the rules, no porn in your home, none while you are there, if he can't live by that rule, you kick him out

Choux

Excess porn viewing is a terrible sickness for men with computers. The content of porn is specially damaging in our day and age....the porn business is all about marketing quick orgasms to men via masturbation for a huge profit margin......and they are good at it. Those on film are *actors* and they are chosen for looks and the size of their various body parts. Everything they do is acting......and selling..... orgasms to a masturbating man. If a man has a sexual partner, he often turns his wife/girlfriend into a porn actress because that is all he knows of sex....and he thinks that what he sees is the epitome of sexuality when in truth, it is the gutter. Surveys and studies all show that many of the younger generations have a bad attitude toward sex and don't even enjoy it. I think it is porn and porn's degradation of women's value in good healthy orgiastic sex.

Anyway, life with an addict of any kind is unpleasant. Too negative. Move on is my advice.