my bf smokes weed every day and hans bongs with his friends. it only resin, but hes also quite paranoid in our relationship even though ive never cheated. could this be why? abd how can i get him to stop smoking weed? i nag at him, but theres only so much nagging u can do in arelationship...

binx44

Maybe the Reason he is paranoid in your relationship stems from another problem.. Some people have personal issues that cause them to be "paranoid" in most relationships they are in. Did he maybe have some bad experiences with women cheating on him? May i ask how old you guys are?
In my opinion someone isnt going to stop doing something unless they want to. no matter how much nagging they hear. I dont think nagging is a good idea either. Have you tried sitting down and having a conversation with him. He might be willing to cut back or stop all together if you approach this as adults. I know lots of people that smoke Alot... and it all really depends on the person what they are like but i've never found that pot smokers are more paranoid because of it.. usually when it is drug induced paranoia its other drugs. I dont know much about the topic but i have offered what i could.

N0help4u

Nagging is only going to ruin your relationship people who smoke weed, drink or do any drugs are often going to choose their habit over you.
I know quit a few guys that say smoking weed makes them paranoid, but I don't know if you are meaning paranoid or insecure and jealous.

You can not make a person change. They have to WANT to change. He is probably who he wants to be. So you either accept him as he is or get out of the relationship because no nagging is going to make him change.

as binx said there are several reasons he can be 'paranoid'.

binx44

true nohelp he may just go back to where he was after cutting back. but he may not.. each and every person is different

jmjoseph

How long have you two been together? When did he start smoking? Will he choose weed over you?

N0help4u

You need to find answers before you let your heart get too involved. I know some will love the person more but sometimes you have to look at worst case scenerios and then take it from there and hope for the best.

twinkiedooter

Find someone who does not smoke dope. It's much easier on you in the end.

phoebe123

thanx for all your help guys
well we have been together almost 2 years now, we do get on realy well but i think hes starting to get a bit too jelous thats why i thought it maight be weed. We are only 17.