Originally Posted by dynamic001
For the past year he's been working long hours and therefore we spend little time together.
Hi Dynamic - To me, right there is your problem. It's a heck of a lot "funner" to stare at the stranger, then look into the marriage and find out why you so want to stare at this stranger, and probably glad he is staring back.
A stare, a glance, they happen. But obviously, that stare is staying in your mind way more then it should. Susbtitute atteniton I call it.
Put that attention, right back where it belongs. And if hubby is working long hours...it's for the benefit of the both of you...so let him come home and be made to feel good about those long hard worked hours.
The stranger doesn't deserve your excess attention - hubby does.
It happens, don't feel bad. We all need that little push back in the right direction...to remember, what is important and what to value, the most.
Show your hubby, just how much you do love him to bits.
My best to you.