Hi. I must say that I can relate to your situation. Tis been a while since you posted. Has the situation changed? Did you take her mothers advice? I have heard this said many times and it may bear some truth: "Ignore and get attraction - Insisit and get Repulsion"... From my own experience I have come to believe that there are ladies who get repelled with too much love... Such kind need a tinge of the "Bad Boy Syndrome" to keep them going... Too perfect/pure is too much for them to handle and they run away... I also know that if you have true love it is difficult not to show it... But the other fact is that if she is this way just after a proposal and the mother can advice ignorance, maybe she is not the right person for you. Is it not better to get hurt now rather than later? It is difficult to accept but I could promise you two things: The harder you will press for her, the more depressed you will become. If she yields to your pressure, she will ultimately pull out again. Those two, I can promise you. Bottom line: This is a test for your strength. Many have gone down and succumbed to be loosers. It is solely up to you to device means and ways to deal with this and overcome it. If she is the right one, she will end up yours. If she is not... Well... That's just it... What you should not do is to work hard to make it worse... She is not sure and it would be wrong of you to puch her because it will haunt you later... So take it easy and think bigger... Don't push... That would not be true love from her side... Let he decide... You have proved that you love... It is now her turn to do likewise and the harder you push, the more you are deciding for her either to come back or go away... In each case, you will loose big time because she might later feel like she was not ready and be deeply affected by small issues of relationships... Move on my friend... Your options are clear... Be strong...!