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    Oct 30, 2007, 03:24 PM
    My girlfriend thinks she's Bi
    Just like the title says my girlfriend think she's Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl.

    Is my girlfriend really Bi?
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    Oct 30, 2007, 03:59 PM
    I feel the same lol but I don't no if I am Bi
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    Oct 30, 2007, 04:31 PM
    It does not make her Bisexual-no she is not, otherwise she would want to have sex with girls.
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    Oct 30, 2007, 04:46 PM
    I do not see anything wrong about a woman finding another woman attractive - does not mean it is sexual. Women can appreciate beauty in other women. I think Catherine Zeta-Jones is beautiful but that does not make me bisexual.

    What are worried about here? That your girlfriend would find another woman more attractive than you? I would say you do not have that worry, or else she would not be with you.
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    Oct 30, 2007, 04:53 PM
    If the thought of actually doing something with the same sex repulses her then she is not gay or bi.
    Often a girl will admire (a) physical characteristic(s) of another girl and/or find some personality qualities attractive, but it is more of an envy type thing than an I want them so I must be...
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    Oct 30, 2007, 05:39 PM
    Lol thanks for the advice. I even told her she isn't Bi before I even posted this thread. Shygrneyzs makes an excellent point
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    Oct 31, 2007, 12:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by atmisk
    just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl.

    Is my girlfriend really Bi?
    Well this can mean a number of things. Most woman thinks that another woman is attractive but usually this is shown with y remarks as they are jelous. Many woman fantazise over lesbian action. Most woman when watching porn with there partner finder that girl on girl porn is a bigger turn on than male and female I think its more of a desire to most woman obvioulsly other woman have there relationsops this way but to others it's a desire to be found sexy in both male and female eyes.
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    Nov 23, 2007, 12:56 AM
    Yeah, if she wouldn't be interested in actually having a girlfriend, she is not bi.
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    Nov 23, 2007, 03:31 AM
    She might be Bi, who knows, but what an opportunity for you. Why don't you ask her to find out if she is but instead of doing it on her own you will provide additional support by joining in! The risk is she might then prefer female company, but hay what an experience for you, some risks are worth taking.
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    Nov 23, 2007, 06:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by atmisk
    just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl. Is my girlfriend really Bi?
    Hello at:

    I'm old so I don't know EXACTLY what the term "date" means today. To me, it means going out in the world with somebody and spending time. I think to you it means screwing. I don't know.

    But, I'll bet you this. If the two of you manage to get a girl in the sack with you, your girlfriend'll do her - and you'll enjoy the crap out of it.

    excon
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    Nov 23, 2007, 06:30 AM
    Okay guys... you are getting out of line here :rolleyes: Shame on you :)

    I think that most women DO fantasize about other women (when they are younger). They are at an experimental time of their lives. This does NOT mean they are Bi or Gay.

    I highly DO NOT RECOMMEND the threesome thing! It will bring bad emotions from her to you. EX: How could you be with another woman... How could you want to share me (vice/versa)? If it is a friend of hers (very likely) it will probably cause mixed emotions there as well.

    I don't think she is bi... just curious... it's normal.
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    Nov 23, 2007, 06:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by atmisk
    just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl.

    Is my girlfriend really Bi?
    You can think girls are attractive and not be bi. If she is bi and loves you it shoudn't interfere with your relationship because it's like saying that a straight girl thinks other guys are hot therefore she's cheating... I know you didn't ask anything like that but just giving you a little insight... I think all girls think other girls are attractive hence playing with beautiful barby dolls, what would we do if they were ugly?
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    Dec 6, 2007, 09:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by rpg219
    I think that most women DO fantasize about other women (when they are younger). They are at an experimental time of their lives. This does NOT mean they are Bi or Gay.
    Everyone on this thread keeps saying that "most" women sometimes are attracted to or interested in other women or fantasize about them. Does it work the other way too? Do some straight men occasionally fantasize about other men? Or does it happen but no one talks about it? Seems like that could happen too.

    Asking
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    Dec 7, 2007, 02:10 AM
    What About My Future
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    Dec 7, 2007, 11:59 AM
    Women find other women attractive, and the proof of that is in sophisticated marketing. All the women's magazines, fashion, general information, all of them, use provocative models showing their breasts and skin to sell EVERYTHING to women! And, in fact, most women dress to show off to other women. (not men, average guys don't know anything much about fashion).

    America is a sexually repressed culture, that is why the image of a female body is so very powerful! It represents natural forbidden impulses, primarily the desires associated with the female breast.

    As for your girlfriend, I am not one who thinks it is a good idea to run out and act out any little impulse one has... she should talk these feelings over with someone first.

    Good Luck!

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