Originally Posted by s_cianci
Pack your bags and go. You don't need or deserve this abuse. And it could, and probably will, get worse. For your own safety and peace of mind get out now.
It truly is uncaracteristic of him to be like this. I have known him my whole life, but have been dating him for 9 and married to him for one and I can honestly count on one hand the number of times he raised his voice at me, or during a discussion. Sure we argue, but we do so in a mature manner. That is why he caught me so off gaurd.
Thanks everyone for your comments. Things are better for sure. We have had a wonderful weekend. He took me to dinner on Friday, we talked again about what happened (he brought it up). And he apologized again.