Thank you all so much! These are all great suggestions. I will try to work out at least for a few minutes every day I think that would be good for me anyway.
My kids are 3, and 9 months, so they take a lot of my time and attention. The date nights are a good idea too, just being away from the kids and being able to talk to each other with out inturuptions will be nice. I hope that I can take all of your suggestions and make them work for me.