Hey Bro,

How are things going with you and your girlfriend. I hope all is getting better.

I'm in a similar situation, that you are in. I am 25, with a 8 year old, she is 19. My fiance and I have been together for 5 months, and I love her to death, so does my son. She was molested multiple times by her fathers friend, and him during her childhood, they would fondle her, watch her get undressed, take showers, make sexual comments to her. It also occurred on her 16th, 17th birthday, and a month ago. We recently found out the she is 8 weeks pregnant. She currently resides in Pa, im living in De.

She has moved back and forth from De, to Pa multiple times. When she resides in pa she is living with her aunt, and uncle who is allowing her father to reside with them, and her. She has not told ANYONE about the recent abuse except for me. I than going on my morals, my upbringing, what I was taught that if some hurts a female in any shape, way, form. Than to do something about it, she made me promise that i wouldn't do anything. I broke that promise and told her mom mom. Her mom mom told me that she knew that something had happened to her in the past, but did not believe that my fiance's father would do something like that. Her mom mom than told her aunt and her aunt and her mom mom confronted her about it, she told them that I was lying and that I was just trying to start drama.

My fiance was upset with me about that. Than she moved back to Pa for a week. A few days after we confirmed that she was pregnant, and a argument between her cousin and her she stated that she was sorry for what she was doing, she was being stupid, and that she realizes that she shouldn't be away from me and my son. Also her mom mom sat down and told her that one of us will need to make a sacrifice and unfortunately it can't be me because I have a son, and that if one of us didn't we wouldn't be together much longer.

She than decided to put her self in a program/house that assists her with getting her on her feet. After a week and a half. We went down to Pa to visit her uncle that was diagnosed with cancer and was only given 7 months to live. She than stated that she wanted to move back to Pa, that's were we stand today.