[quote=jenniepepsi;3153279]As far as I know (I am still learning) Children under 12, stay with the mother. Children over 12, will stay with the father. But i have also read that children go to the father always. and
ive also read that children go to the parent who is most able to
emotionally, physically, and financially provide for the chil

Walekumsalam.. No i dont have anyone to speak to abt it...im just dragging life for sake of my two girls... One is 7, second one is 1 1/2yrs.what is left... My time is over my dreams n wishes n love for man everything finished... Im literary living to takecare of my kids n avoiding to give my parents the strain of divorce....but
sometimes a thought comes in my mind to get away n live my life... So i contacted u..iam thankfull to u for ur concern... I think i really cant separate my kids from their father however he is nor i cant live without my kids...They r my life.
Here i Will survive ... There allah will show.. ..ameen