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    May 30, 2012, 02:21 AM
    How to make it stop?
    My boyfriend goes out every Friday its really frustrating because he turns his phone of because his friends tell him too because they don't like me so I don't hear from him till the next day so I don't know what he's doing in town he's pretty flirtatious so its allways running through my mind and always has girls tryna contact him but he doesn't reply. When ever I confront him and say I don't like him going out every weekend he says I promise ill never do it again and then comes the weekend and he's out again. Its driving me crazy. Plus he's a angry sort of person so pretty much when ever I say you do you actually love me he gets angry. And everyone tells me to leave him and I end up dumping him but he apologises and I go running back I think he does what he likes because he knows ill always come back to him. I don't really want to leave him I love him too much I just want him to change. He was so caring and the start and wanted to doo everything with me now its like hed rather spend most of his time with his friends. I need some advice?
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    May 30, 2012, 07:20 AM
    You make it stop by leaving him and not taking him back.
    He is not going to change. You need to change what you're doing. Stop taking him back.
    He does not sound like a winner to me.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 06:39 PM
    I wish it was that easy. He has been trying too stop going out I think he's a alcoholic and can't help himself on a Friday he's on his way home waits at home for me to finish then his stupid friends come over and pick him up and its like he can't say noo. He tries to make me come with him but not anymore cause we fight too much when we drink together now. Any other advice? Other then leaveing him.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 06:48 PM
    Stay and put up with it.
    When you get sick and tired of this you'll do what you know you need to do. Leave him.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 07:05 PM
    Yes just stay and put up with it, put up with the girls he is holding when he is out, the ones he talks to when he is not with you. So you know he cares more about his friends than you, he likes to party more than he likes you.

    And you don't go out with him ?
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    Jun 2, 2012, 07:13 PM
    I guess. I don't go out with him because I hate his friends and they hate me. He doesn't go out with other chicks he drinks at his friends house with his boys and there partners I've been with him a couple of times and I don't like his crowd of friends so I stopped going with them they hate me because they think I get him into too much trouble so there always baging on me in his ear. Flirtings all right anything further and that's when I would walk away I don't put up with guys who cheat, and he's a straight up person and tells me if he does anything I just don't trust girls there's girls out there who will keep trying till they get exzactly what they want so its not the fact that I don't trust him because I do he's nevr given me reason to not, I just want him to stop going out and spend more time with me.
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    Jun 2, 2012, 07:13 PM
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    Jun 2, 2012, 08:25 PM
    He's not going to change. You keep taking him back so he has no incentive to change and will just continue doing what he's doing.

    There's no simple answer here... leave him or keep putting up with it.

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