No you are not. She tells you she wants to be your friend because she doesnt want to feel guilt of dumping you, or that her time with you is a waste of time, or she wants to be with her new boyfriend AND you! Why is everything about her? That is just very selfish of her. You should not be her friend. You are obviously very hurt about this. In order to heal from this hurt you would need to cut all contact with her, meaning delete her from fb, your cell phone, messenger and what not, dont go near her or if she comes near you, a simple hi and then leave. Otherwise you will be hung over this girl for a LONG time and you will not be able to move on. You ll spend every living breath thinking about her, your career will start to take a toll, other girls will move away from you and etc.