Originally Posted by jojaaa
I cant go to a doctor its considered as scandle to check up virginity
is there any other way ?!!!
Sorry, but no. We do understand different cultural mores, but the facts are are not about cultural and social mores but about biology and science. Virginity is defined as penile insertion. No penile insertion then virginity is intact.
But it is a fact that hymens can break due to reasons other than penile insertion. It is also a fact that even if the hymen is intact it is not a given that the man can tell. Not all women will bleed upon the hymen breaking. So, your culture is asking the physical and cultural impossibility. The only way to tell if there is an intact hymen is by examination by an OB/Gyn.
I'm sorry if this does not help you, but those are the facts.