Hey, people don't make her feel worse by insulting what she did wrong. We all make mistakes. There's no need in pointing fingers and blaming people. Won't help. Ma'm I believe that the reason you did this is because you felt lonely. And you were looking for someone to be with. That would understand you. Does your husband talk to you? Cause if not talk with him. then surprise him with something nice! Don't drown yourself in guilt because of one mistake. Talk to someone.