Children that are disobedient, disrespectful and ungrateful will make their parents hate them. I feel the same way about my own children. Despite all of my efforts and hard work, now that they are teenagers, they have turned into children from hell. I once enjoyed being a mother and looked forward to seeing my children when I woke up and or got off work, now I hate having to deal with them on a daily basis. I feel like being a mother is a curse!!!!!