I was like this in elementary and I was diegnosed with ADHD and asbergers which is the most fuctionable form of autism my parents put my in a lot of sports to where me out they put me I'm singing lessons to where I could use my voice a lot and I was also taught clarinet. It worked for me and I was put on a very strict homework schedule I'm now graduated in the top 15 of my class and I have a job at a dress design/repair shop just be patient it'll work out