@wondergirl..your take on the situation makes alot of sense to me, I never looked at it that way. I have never tried to break into that and I probably won't, its been going on too long. Other family members have tried to talk to my mom about it(her sisters and brothers) but they get nowhere. Im just going to stay focused on my goals so that I can move out asap. I will always be there for my mom but she is going to have to deal with my sister and the issues with her own house herself.
I just wanted to know what others would do in a situation like mine and to know if my feelings about it was right or wrong.