Originally Posted by kseekingb
Can you imagine not even knowing what your father looks like? All I want now is a relationship with my brother whose name and whereabouts I do not know (if he and his mother are open to that of course).
Yes I can. My husband is adopted as are 2 of his siblings. They have no idea who they look like, or their medical history. My SIL did find her birth mother 4 years ago, as well as 2 of her siblings. It did not end well and she is still suffering from being "disowned," not once, at birth, but twice (when she found her birth mother). Sometimes its better to leave well enough alone.