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    joy2theworld Posts: 72, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 9, 2012, 08:24 PM
    Why am I always the one left out?
    I always kind of feel left out around my friends, but this just crossed the line! My teacher recently chose six people to be in this bully awareness group! Three guys, my two bet friends and this girl who used to be my best friend and is now dead to me. Anyway I am always alone now, and I know I should branch out and meet new friends but it is not that easy! I need help with this now, so please do not tell me I need more friends I already know I do. So lately my two friends and our enemy have been all buddy buddy! Last thing they said about her was that they hated her. Clearly they fir got what she did to me. So now I spend recess playing my iPod in the bathroom while they are becoming closer and closer to the girl I hate! Oh and they always talk about meetings and crap in front of me! Get a clue! To make it all worse my mother told them I felt left out and they think my anger is unnessasary! I just don't know what to do! If you are reading this please write at least something to help me! Please it just keeps getting worse day by day! Thanks
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    Jan 9, 2012, 09:15 PM
    I'm in the same situation as you but now I need a counsiler and have to go everwhere wif my parents girl you got to go up to them and tell them I'm in this world and I only have one life and I'd like to live it nicely please!
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    Jan 10, 2012, 06:16 AM
    Do you think your teacher chose this girl because maybe she was being bullied by you? I don't know what happened between you guys, but teachers see a lot of what is going on, maybe she felt the other girl was being left out and was trying to include her in things. Is there anyway you can talk to this girl about what happened and see if you can make amends? What about asking your teacher if there is anything you can do to be a part of the bully prevention. Maybe you could be the one designated to make flyers or posters? Maybe you could ask your teacher if you could start a branch off the group and ask if maybe you and 3-4 other students could be in charge of the posters and such.
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    Jan 10, 2012, 07:17 PM
    No she was bullying me... I had a talk with a teacher and everything! I just don't know why she picked her!
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    Jan 10, 2012, 07:19 PM
    Oh and also my best friends think the way I'm feeling left out is stupid and I shouldn't feel this way! I'm just so confused
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    Jan 10, 2012, 08:33 PM
    Yes, most likely they still want to be friends and you are shutting them out because they are making friends with this other person.
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    Jan 10, 2012, 09:20 PM
    Well maybe I should tell you more about this person! Out of the blue she decided not to be our friends because she was sick of us! They said they would never forgive her! All that rambling on for nothing. My friends say I'm stupid for this! The Emily chick thinks that they need my approval to talk to her! They were talking about maybe going skiing and I over heard Emily saying "well your going to have to ask...her first" while giving me a look. I feel like she is trying to turn them against me or something!
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