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    Sep 18, 2011, 01:20 PM
    Why doesn't my step-mom like me?.
    A few years ago, my dads girlfriend moved in with us and every thing was going great. But reacently she doesn't seem to like me its almost as if I iritate her. Im 13 so its not like I can't have a mature convosation with her and some times its fine like we'll chat but occationaly ill accidentally forget to flush the loo or I don't know forget to put something away shell have a go and act all shifty with me for ages and like sighes every time I walk into the room... Dose she hate me? Should I just move in with my mum fulltime? (Ilive with her half the week) maby my dad and my step mom would be happyer that way... Any advice? Please help
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    Sep 18, 2011, 01:35 PM
    Would you be happier with your mom (you are from the UK right)?

    Is there any court order in place that you know of, that says you have to live with your father? If so, would be a deciding factor, cause living with your dad means he doesn't have to pay child support.

    Your happiness is tantamount but you don't tell us much of the whole situation to give you an informed answer.

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    Sep 26, 2011, 12:05 PM
    Thanks but I live with my dad half the week and my real mum the other and its not like I don't want to live with my dad at all its just I treat his girlfriend like royalty and... its wired shell be great for a little and not like me for ages when I haven't even done anything... I just want her to like me... ps how did you know I was from the U.K?
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    Sep 26, 2011, 12:10 PM
    We know because you used the word "loo."
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    Sep 26, 2011, 01:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    We know because you used the word "loo."

    Yes, that too, but a couple of expressions are totally british; like 'have a go'

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    Sep 26, 2011, 01:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by riverpony View Post
    thanks but i live with my dad half the week and my real mum the other and its not like i dont want to live with my dad at all its just i treat his girlfriend like royalty and ... its wired shell be great for a little and not like me for ages when i havent even done anything...i just want her to like me... ps how did u know i was from the U.K?

    River, I don't think she dislikes you; maybe she wants to be alone with your dad totally and finds you an interloper,when you actually are not. You actually have more right to be there then she does;I guess you will just have to put up with her antics if you don't have to bother with her full time. Maybe your dad will get tired of her and kick her out.

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    Oct 12, 2011, 12:08 AM
    Thanks guys, but he's completely smitten with he at the moment still I really appreciate the advice, maby I just need 2 get 2 know her a little better xxx

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