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    #21

    Jun 15, 2011, 11:04 PM
    Enjoy the weekend and lets wait for 'the' Monday.
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    #22

    Jun 16, 2011, 07:11 PM
    Well here's another update.
    My boyfriend texted me this morning saying that he loved me, and that he would have said so last night while we were on the phone, but I didn't say it first, I told him that I didn't say anything because he said that he needed more time, so I felt that I shouldn't have rushed things by telling him that I loved him over the phone.

    Any insight?
    I apologize if I keep giving you updates even though him and I are on a break at the moment.
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    Jun 16, 2011, 09:34 PM
    Not much insights, the week long break is doing what its supposed to do. And he is starting to miss you, but the frequency and power of it, I think its still not enough. Next time during a text, please tell him that you are going to be busy this weekend and may not answer the call or text back until Monday. Be strong Zambers
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    #24

    Jun 21, 2011, 04:55 PM
    Well he broke up with me yesterday, his reasonings were a tad off.
    1. we live too far
    2. we were fighting too much
    3. he loves me, he wants to be with me, but he wanted to break up.
    4. he still wants to talk to me even though we're broken up.
    5. the night he broke up with me, he still wanted to cuddle with me and have breakfast with me in the morning.

    Do you think he still loves me, but maybe wants to explore?
    Not too sure what to think, I'm really heart-broken at the moment.
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    Jun 21, 2011, 05:12 PM

    The only fact you have is that he dumped you, his choice for whatever reasons. Now you have a choice, accept it, and disappear from his life knowing that he ain't into you enough to overcome the hassles.

    Good Riddance, you are free to get a better life.
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    #26

    Jun 21, 2011, 08:57 PM
    Sorry for what happened.
    No, he is not even confused anymore like we thought before. He sure doesn't love you anymore and he means it. Think he is more into the other girl. Fine, let him explore, let him find out that you were not replacable, but he doesn't deserve to cuddle and continue with you as a friend. It is truly his loss. Disappear from his life Zambers. It is a difficult tough time for you, be strong and don't give in.

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