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    papintiggy Posts: 28, Reputation: 11
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    Apr 11, 2011, 12:34 PM
    Why does my boyfriend have a problem staying aroused after he ejaculated?
    My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life. We foreplay then we have are usual intercourse, but lately I have notice that after he ejaculate and we wait a while to go for it again, the second time he gets aroused but after a while is soft again. I don't know if it has something to do with me but it has passed my mind quite a bit.
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    Apr 11, 2011, 01:17 PM
    After sex, passionate or not, it's not incredibly easy to get aroused again. (takes me about an easy hour or two).

    On rare occasions, if it is really passionate.. . It's less difficult. I would be happy he got it up the first time ;)

    ---btw, do NOT blame yourself for this. Don't get down, or upset for two reasons. . 1. It will most def. break the mood and 2. It is not your fault it won't come up.. . It's just difficult :)
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    #3

    Apr 11, 2011, 01:19 PM

    It's not you. It's male biology.
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    #4

    Apr 11, 2011, 10:22 PM

    The guy is pooped, and needs more time to recover. Nothing to do with you at all.
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    #5

    Apr 12, 2011, 05:15 AM

    How old are you?
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    Apr 12, 2011, 07:36 AM

    Its not you. It sounds like he is exhasted. Does he work? What kind of work? How many hours? What does he do when he is not at work.
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    Apr 12, 2011, 07:56 AM

    All men are different.

    Some can go for two or three or more.
    98% need time to rest and recover unless
    They are armed with the "Blue Steel" viagra.
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    #8

    Apr 12, 2011, 08:01 AM

    I REPEAT::

    HOW OLD ARE YOU?

    ANY further posts until we have the OP's age will be deleted. You guys know better.
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    papintiggy Posts: 28, Reputation: 11
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    Apr 12, 2011, 09:12 AM
    I am 18 years old and he is 20 years old. Currently he is unemployed but does do he job on the side. He looking for jobs and I am helping him, also we do study.

    Thank you guys for the responses :-)

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