Originally Posted by adviceishere
Well sadly it has been a shock for you but she has probably been thinking about this for a while, she says she needs to be alone right now then you should let her be and also take this time to reflect on things yourself,
I know its terribly confusing :confused: on the one hand you've to give her time but on the other hand you can't sit around waiting on her either, there needs to be a time limit on these things so it fair on you both, you also don't want to be giving ultimatims on when she should give you an answer, so my advice would be NC for 2 weeks and if you haven't an answer by then take matters into your own hands but don't tell her she has 2 weeks to decide, just give yourself some kind of control over this situation by giving yourself a time limit.
Yes i asked her why she didn't talk to me about this and she says she has been feelings like this for a couple weeks and has tried making it works but wants some times and can't be with me right now. I really hope this time makes her realize what she has lost and if not I will be very upset :/ but if it works it could bring us closer than we"ve ever been. I just can't imagine myself with anyone else. I am only 19 and she was my high school sweetheart and says that she just doesn't love me like she used to and says its not at all me its all her.