Alright both of you take a deep breath. It is over a month a pregnancy test should be accurate with first morning urine (it concentrates the hormones that are tested for). Home tests are really acurate, if unsure you can go to the doctor or health department. The 2-pack lets you repeat to prove results to yourself or someone else if need. Or test again later if you question a negative. Don't bother questioning a positive the hormones are only there for a baby. As they told me 25 years ago "positive is positive". I had called because mine was only slightly pink. Not a young thing, happily married just NOT expecting a baby in the picture.
First, find out if you are pregnant, then cross bridges needed.
Shine, if your pain is still around with or without discharge, see a doctor or the health department. If your test shows positive there could be real issues like a tubal pregnancy. If negative continued pain has some cause. Get it checke out, no one else is in charge of your health.
Mk, please if you are not pregnant and don't want to be use condoms with or without another because if he won't use them he does not care about you! Obviously he doesn't care that getting pregnant worriies you. It should in the majority of cases the mom has to shoulder the care and financial concerns for 18 years. Just look around. IF HE WANTS TO PLAY JACKET IT! Its for your safety too