Originally Posted by noooobdi
i get irritated,, thus i cant lead to climax .. and still feel like having a climax !
Please listen to the advice about getting a vibrator or some kind of toy.
You know what you can change it up. Use your hands, use your toy. It is important for you to learn how to pleasure yourself and reach climax in order to learn about your body.
The irritation might just delay your climax, because most women need to be completely relaxed in order to reach climax and if your always worked up and worried about reaching it, your defeating the original purpose.