Jake 2008,
Today I took my 11 year old daughter out for about an hour. Husband was at the house watching t.v. When I came home he was gone and my 18 year old son said he took some of his things to his apartment. I was surprised.
He took some clothes and personal products, such as razor, tooth brush. I asked my son if he said he was coming back and he said yes. I don't think he's coming back tonight but I'm sure he will be back off and on through the week.We just told our 11 yr old what was going on yesterday so maybe he now feels like he needs to go because it is confusing to her as to why he is still living here. I'm going to contact a lawyer or lawyers tomorrow to make appointment. I'm really scared because I know its going to get ugly. He owns a business worth several million dollars that was established during are marriage. I know he hides a lot of money, pays under the table and so forth. I know that I will never know how much money he is hiding and he will walk away with a lot more then I will ever know. I have no access to any of his bank accounts. We don't even have a joint account. He gives me cash every week and I put some of that in my account when needed to pay credit cards and things but that's it. I know nothing. I feel so stupid. And by the way I made a copy of the $6000.00 receipt before I put it back in his car. I guess on occasion I"m not so stupid.