Originally Posted by Skell
Wish I had read that the day after my ex said she needed space.
I didn't though. And I didn't find this place until it was too late.
I begged, cried, pleaded etc. Uuuggghhhhh yuck!
It was horrible and I regret it so much and ultimately it just pushed her so much farther away! Sad!
Thats why I implore people to listen to the advice here. It doesn't sounds logical at first but as we all find out it is pretty much all spot on the money!
You and me both Skell as you know...
Yet luckily, I don't think I did it too much a couple of times but I still did it and even once is bad enough but when you are the one left behind, it really, really hurts!
Yes, that was a great article, full of balance too..
Not just focusing on no contact as a means of getting an ex back but focusing on aiding the healing and acceptance.
Hat off to 4answers for finding it..