Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
I am engaged to a girl I really love. I am only 21 and she is 24. Of course I have always had doubts because of my age and so has she because of my age.
Not a big deal.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
We have been together for 2 years. We seem to fight alot and sometimes I want to leave just because of that.
That’s telling. The very fact that you admit you want to leave leads me to believe you aren’t too confident in this relationship. You would know better than anybody else. If your admitting it I’m thinking you should probably end it.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
We had a fight a couple of weeks ago and apparently she signed on to a website looking for other men.
She’s already left you.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
She said she was just checking it out because she got an email from them.
She’s lying. I get emails all the time from the daughters of kings and queens that promise me untold fortunes if I just turn over my bank account number. My point. I ignore them.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
But she made a profile and says she only made the profile so she could check out the website.
She’s putting “feelers” out there to see what kind of response she can get.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
I found this very offending and am in the process of finding a new place.
Good. She’s already has or is in the process of emotionally leaving you. By that I mean she’s keeping you around but putting her focus on other guys or just other things in general. She’s preparing to leave you by letting her emotional side “come down” before she just up and leaves.
Originally Posted by
confusedyoung1
I am so confused though. I dont know confused if that was a good enough reason to leave and I really want to be with this girl too.:confused:
I’m not sure that the relationship is necessarily over, but you’ve got to separate for the time being. Perhaps by showing her that you won’t put up with this behavior and providing her with some time to think about you while your gone she might come around.
That being said, her behavior seems to be of someone who is preparing to leave this relationship and minimize the emotional pain she will have to feel.