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    Xxcutiexx2 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 9, 2009, 01:10 PM
    My boyfriend rarely Wants to have sx with me
    My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex with me. I have sex with him once or if I get lucky twice a week. He tells me that he doesn't need sex that he just wants to cuddle and have foreplay. He rather have me giving head than having sex with me. It's also weird we might be like ready to have sex and then all of sudden it just goes down . He does get Horney off me so I think he's straight. It has passed through my mind that he might be gay but he told me isn't. What do u think does he just have a low sex dive or is he gay. How do u know if a guy is gay? I have true to look at his eyes when I hot passes by but he doesn't look at them I've seen him check out women I present them to my friends to get my opinkn and hey tell me that he is not gay his laugh is just gay or weird. Please help thanks
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    Nov 9, 2009, 01:14 PM

    I think you're reading a bit too much into this. Did you ever think maybe he just doesn't have the same sex drive as you?
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    Nov 9, 2009, 01:32 PM

    First--this forum is for 18+ ADULTS.

    Adults use the word "you" instead of "u"

    If you can't be adult enough to TYPE like an adult, I WILL delete your question.

    Second--1-2 times a week is what MOST couples have. Life gets in the way much of the rest of the time.

    Sounds to me like you should just ASK him what he thinks about the whole situation, and take as the TRUTH what he answers.

    If you can't trust him enough to have an honest conversation about sex with him, then why the heck are you HAVING sex with him?
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    Nov 9, 2009, 04:23 PM
    Talk to him.

    Ask him what's happening in his head. Who knows, he might prefer men to women but he's the only one that knows.

    If sex is important to you, then you might have to find it somewhere else.
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    Nov 15, 2009, 11:57 PM
    I must say, I had a relationship where we had sex 1 to 2 times a week. I thought that was too little too, at the time. Then I got into a relationship where we have sex 1 to 2 times a MONTH. Be thankful for what you have, really. I thought at the time 1 to 2 times a week was little, but 1 to 2 times a month is sheer torture and I wish I had what I had before. That is average, and believe me, he's not gay if he wants you that often. Also, one thing I did wrong with my ex who I was with 1 to 2 times a week, I didn't realize when he was trying to initiate, and thought he was just cuddling. Talk to him, but try not to fight about it. We fought about it fairly often, and actually ended up breaking up over it (plus some other small things). So I repeat, be thankful for what you have. I envy you.
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    Nov 16, 2009, 07:14 AM
    Gay guys aren't into muff munching. So get that idea out of your head.

    While some guys refuse to go down on a woman, others love it.

    And maybe the fear of having a baby is what's controlling his actions.

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