Crazy, crazy, crazy!
You are letting her keep you close, and available to her. WHY she does this?
Yes its true she doesn't want an official relationship with you, but she does want you in the "friend zone" so she can have you without any commitment, or guilt, until someone else comes along.
Then she doesn't have to break up with you, just do whatever she wants, and cut face time with you, until she is too busy schmoozing some other guy, to be there for you at all.
A brilliant strategy, used by females (and males for sure) for centuries, so you see, she doesn't have to take you back because as long as she is on your mind, and you can't get your own life, and disappear from hers, she has you where she wants you, the way she wants you, when she wants you, however she wants you. Got that? that's why we tell you to stop All contacts, and ignore ALL texts, and you disappear from her life. If you don't, any misery and pain, is YOUR fault, and not hers. And that what she will tell you when she gets another guy, and leaves you dead in the dust, its your fault not hers because she told you she wanted a break, but you just kept coming back for more, on your own.
Now you know the whole story, what are you going to do?