First, I want to thank all of you who have answered my post.
If you read my previous post "Husband feels like a third Wheel" allot of this has to do with my husband feeling jealous and insecure. And it revolves around a good friend of mine.
Rob and I met when our store was being re modeled. He was one of the tile setters. We just clicked as friends and have been good buds ever since. He is not interested in having sex with me, and same with me. I'm am not his type.
It had gotten to the point were hubby has out and out accused me of sleeping with Rob.
Now he has started to check up on me. If I'm a little late getting home, or even when I have left him a note, he is positive that I have gone down to see Rob. This has resulted in yelling matches with my husband. My husband has also accused me of putting Rob before him.
I have NEVER, EVER, done that.
My husband wants me to call Rob only once a month, and then for only an hour, and see him even less. I see Rob maybe once a month if that, and speak to him once or twice a week on the phone.
I know there are those of you who will say, you need to get another friend, or you need to stop being friends with Rob for the sake of your marriage.
Since when does my husband dictate to me who I can and cannot be friends with?
Yes, I have tried to communicate to my husband how I feel, but its ALL about him, and how HE feels. He isn't taking how I feel into consideration at all.
This last time he checked up on me was the breaking point.