Originally Posted by 88sunflower

I agree with red and you artsy. One minute I am thinking to heck with it. I will make it his last bash. Who cares if I have to smile pretty and pretend its perfect. Then the next minute I think to heck with that. I bust my butt for days before to make it perfect. Why bother now for my husband to have a good time with his family on my behalf.

The thing is I am getting him a DS as a gift because he has wanted one for two years now. But of course he doesn't know that. So the other day I asked him if he wanted a party or the DS. He wants the DS. I could use that as a way to get out of the party. But then I miss the huge surprise on his face when he opens his own DS.

Either way I guess my son wins. Its what I think I can handle.