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    Apr 19, 2009, 11:17 PM
    How can I be virgin again?
    I had sex at a very young age. It been about ten years since the last time I have been with a guy. My question is will it hurt when a have sex again? What options do I have to be virgin again.
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    Apr 19, 2009, 11:32 PM

    Well angel that depends on how far you want to take it. I mean there are surgeries out there that will make you appear to be a virgin again, like repairing the hymen so that it tears and you bleed etc like if you where a virgin. Its common in some muslim countries and a few countries in the west also have doctors that can perform the surgery.
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    Apr 19, 2009, 11:37 PM

    Apart from the surgery lighterr mentioned that will only make you seem like a virgin you will never truly be a virgin again. It doesn't matter how much you try or how well you fool a man, you in your heart will know that it is false. That special moment is gone. The box is open, the rabbit is out of the hat. Everyone makes mistakes and there are just some mistakes that can't be unmade.
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    Apr 19, 2009, 11:42 PM

    Why do you want to be a virgin again? You've had sex, you are no longer a virgin, Technically. You can, for sexual tightness of the vagina, do kegels to tighten those muscles. That may help with any sexual pleasures. Other than that, I'm not sure.

    Peace be with you.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 02:38 AM

    As for the pain, it really depends on you, how relaxed and comfortable you are. I had no pain when I lost my virginity as I was completely comfortable.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 03:15 AM

    Sorry but once you have had sex you can't go back into time to change that. You can only live with the decision you made.

    Why does sex hurts now? Are you getting wet? If not you might want to try using lube. Are you comfortable as Shaz mention? If not, you might want to relax or play around with new positions that are comfortable for you.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:22 AM
    It isn't EVER going to happen... you are only a virgin once, you can't ever be one again... sorry but that's just how it is. Unless you believe in reincarnation. But short of that nope.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:27 AM

    You can't be a virgin again...it's physically not going to happen. It won't hurt to have sex, and you should be happy it won't...it might make you a bit sore, because you haven't had sex in a while...I can't imagine WHY you would Want to be a virgin again...
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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:31 AM

    Sorry but once you lose your virginity there is not going back...
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    Apr 20, 2009, 10:01 AM

    It just really depends on the 2 people and what they are doing in bed, how comfortable both of you are, and how compatible both of you body parts are.

    I know when I lost my virginity it hurt a little bit, but then again I've had sex that wasn't my first time that hurt and was a little uncomfortable too.

    None of us can tell you whether it will hurt. We don't know how your body will feel. Everyone feels different.

    But I can definitely say no you are not a virgin again. You can only loose your virginty once.
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    Apr 20, 2009, 10:03 AM

    You can take a purity vow. Won't make you a virgin, but I've heard it been called "the second virginity".

    Take the vow of purity

    Sarah
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    Apr 20, 2009, 10:07 AM

    If you are concerned because you want your partner to think you are a virgin,I would rethink that right off the bat.
    That would be a very poor way to begin a relationship.Honesty is the best thing.You need not go into details about when you lost your virginity but being up front about it is the best way to go.
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    Jul 26, 2009, 10:17 AM
    After a while your hymen will grow back. It will hurt & you will probably bleed.
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    Jul 26, 2009, 12:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JordanKFairn View Post
    after a while your hymen will grow back. it will hurt & you will probably bleed.
    Exactly how long does it take for your hymen to grow back? Please enlighten me!
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    Jul 26, 2009, 12:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JordanKFairn View Post
    after a while your hymen will grow back. it will hurt & you will probably bleed.
    Doesn't happen. Will never happen.
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    Jul 26, 2009, 12:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JordanKFairn View Post
    after a while your hymen will grow back. it will hurt & you will probably bleed.

    I will assume the poster was joking, I am sure no one believes this
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    Jul 26, 2009, 12:57 PM
    The thread is old. I have closed it as the OP has never returned.
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