So if this is normal then what is the game plan. People say work more.....I am at work......I'll be here for the next 3 days......take up a hobby.....we shared the same hobbies so I think about him the entire time......hang out with friends....I do but that only lasts for a couple of hours. I need a long-term solution. I don't know how to get to that next step where it is not such a big thing. I don't want to be ruined for life and end up with nothing. I want to get over this somehow.....I haven't been right since the day I decided not to get married. That is all I think about. I keep my faith that all things work according to God's will. It is just that I feel like this man is my soul-mate.....this is hard for me to get past