You want tons of answers....
Well, can I have at least 12 ounces more information from you?
Is this your first relationship?
Are you alone now, tired of being alone, or scared of being alone?
Do you respect and like yourself and the goals you set for the future?
Why just settle for a 'stable' relationship..shoot for more because a stable relationship sounds boring. Also, never give up any part of you and your values just to please anyone else - be sincere to yourself first, then share yourself with another... In other words, share your differences with understanding and caring.
You've gotten at least a ton of advice and don't really have to dish out those 12 oz. For me, but it would help me to know a little more to help you reach harmony in life.
Good luck dear, and get back with us soon.