And my answer was, she may want a physical relationship with a lesbian, but that doesn't mean she will turn into one..Falling for a lesbian means what to you? To me it means wanting to be in a relationship with that person. A physical attraction, or acting on it, doesn't constitute a relationship and I think this person has their hopes up for something that will only disappoint her later. If someone is gay, then they have always been gay, they don't just change because they feel turned on by someone.