Originally Posted by rpl

to all of the above wonderful responses,I thank you all. I did go to the philipines to meet her. She appears legit. However, when I suggested we don't marry in june there, because I didn't like the heat, she agreed to marry here when she gets her visa which will take up to one year to do. Question is, I had thought she was already making so called hand made wedding invitations for 100 people! I had thought also she wanted to have her parents see her get married. All of a sudden, she's ok with coming here instead. What do you think? She introduced me to her folks, and her sister and sisters boyfriend...all seemed legit. I was only at her home for one meal, breakfast at 6:30 a.m. A day she claimed was hers for cooking for her father to go to work. I wonder! Says they share that chore.